The Clients I love to work with
Welcome to Living Authentically: Personal Insights and Transformative Journeys in Sex and Intimacy Coaching, a blog series dedicated to exploring the transformative power of somatic coaching, intimacy, and self-discovery.
Through my personal experiences, professional growth, and the powerful methods I use with clients, this series will guide you on a journey to reconnect with yourself and others. Whether you’re seeking to heal past wounds, reignite your relationships, or simply understand yourself on a deeper level, these stories and insights may offer a roadmap to embracing your most authentic and fulfilled life.
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True confidence isn’t about performing for others—it’s about aligning with your authentic self.
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of working with clients from all walks of life, each seeking to reconnect with themselves and their relationships. Confidence, or the lack of it, is a recurring theme. Many clients feel uncertain about how to express their desires or show up authentically in their relationships. For some, it’s a lack of experience or guidance; for others, societal expectations and conditioning have left them questioning their worth or validity.
For single men navigating the complexities of modern dating, this lack of confidence can feel paralyzing. Many of them grew up during a time when conversations about consent and respect began to take centre stage. While this is an essential and positive shift, it has also left some men hesitant about how to lead or assert their desires authentically. My work with these clients focuses on helping them understand their own needs and practice embodied confidence. Through somatic exercises, we create a space where they can experience what it feels like to lead from a place of respect, empathy, and self-assuredness.
Couples often come to me feeling stuck, believing they have “mismatched libidos” or other irreconcilable differences. More often than not, the issue isn’t a true mismatch—it’s a disconnect between their individual desires and how they’re expressed or understood. I guide these couples through exercises that help them communicate more openly and explore their desires in a safe and playful way. This work often leads to breakthroughs that not only reignite intimacy but also strengthen emotional bonds.
Then there are the explorers—those who are curious about stepping into new dimensions of their sexuality, whether it’s consensual non-monogamy, kink, or other forms of expression. These clients often feel both excitement and fear as they navigate uncharted territory. Together, we work on building the emotional tools and communication skills they need to feel grounded and confident in their explorations.
I particularly love working with couples who are delving into power dynamics or BDSM for the first time. For those curious about Conscious Power play or incorporating kink into their relationships, I provide a supportive, judgment-free container where they can learn, experiment, and grow together. Exploring new aspects of sexuality can be daunting, but I’m here to help bridge that gap and guide clients toward confidence, clarity, and playfulness.
While my work is predominantly with heterosexual couples and individuals, I also work with queer clients, particularly bisexual women. Many of these clients are exploring their sexual identities, navigating their desires, or building confidence in how they relate to themselves and others.
Across all these scenarios, the common thread is embodiment.
Confidence isn’t something you can fake or think your way into—it has to be felt.
By tuning into their bodies, my clients gain access to a deep well of self-assurance that comes from alignment with their true selves.
Ultimately, my work is about helping people move past their fears, uncertainties, or conditioning to create deeply fulfilling relationships—with themselves and others.
Whether you’re seeking to rebuild your confidence or deepen your connection with a partner, the first step is always about coming home to who you truly are.
